A handy dandy guide for anyone I’ve ever ghosted and thrown out of my life.
For those who don’t know, ghosting is the art of quickly disappearing out of someone’s life without confrontation or communication. Polite society considers ghosting in poor taste, but it is the language of those who are just fed up. I am done with folks with nothing better to do than to take up my time and energy. So I will just ghost people.
Not everyone deserves your time and patience. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been best friends or you’re like family. A hater is a hater. And there is no negotiating with haters. They are determined to hate you out of existence. Nobody has time for that.
So yeah, sometimes ghosting is the answer. Protect your peace and simply walk away or mentally check out from people who would turn you into their personal emotional vending machine. It’s what the ancestors would’ve wanted.